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How Big Love Can Be!
Weddings invite you to celebrate the love of those getting married. But, as I realized recently at my friend Orlando’s wedding, they also stir up deep and complex feelings of love in all the witnesses….
Waiting for Paul
The Beatles changed my life. Sixty years after I saw them perform in Chicago, I went to see Paul. Waiting for him to come onstage was deliciously excruciating….
Saying What We Dare Not Say
When someone tells me something that I don’t quite understand, I can secretly harbor my own opinions about it until they fester and can turn into a weird version of what was actually meant. A personal story…
The Story Waiting to be Told
Something magical happens when we actually write a story that’s long been bubbling inside us. It starts to reveal a meaning we hadn’t even imagined. If you’ve been wanting to write your story, this program is for you.
The Ceremonies of the Everyday
The little routines of daily life can, if I look at them a certain way, become ceremonies. Like going out to the woodpile and feeding my little wood-burning stove…
Beauty’s Invitation
Beauty’s reputation has suffered in recent years. Admitting that you believe beauty is worth paying attention to implies that you probably aren’t paying attention to important things like the local food movement or films by Iranian women.” And yet, beauty seduces….
The Shimmering Portal
As we age, we have the opportunity to determine in a powerful new way who we are, what it’s time to let go of… and what we REALLY want to embrace.
Watching Things
They say the watched pot never boils. But it does. And every moon rises more than once if you pay attention.
Learning patience from my lawn mower
My new lawn mower is difficult to back up, and that’s a problem when I’m mowing under bushes. I’m trying to learn patience from this mechanical necessity of pausing.
Grief, Judgment, Courge
My husband made me a Valentine every year for 40 years. I have been making them for him for 44 years.
How Much News?
Some of my friends have told me that the manifestations and prognoses of climate change are so distressing that they’ve stopped watching and listening to the news.
Considering Transitions
I’ve been thinking about transitions ever since I stepped down as the executive director of Radical Joy for Hard TImes…